I get asked about being single and my perspective on various things because I am looking through the lens of a Single Black Woman. But its apparent to me that I need to inspect even further, the things I want in a mate.
I look for colors and intentions. What are your true colors and what are your intentions. No matter what I experience, I am grateful for the ability to still smile. I remember meeting someone rather quickly and he had asked me if he could borrow money. I had only been talking to him for a week. In life there are givers and takers. Life for me is all about reciprocity. An equal amount of give and take. In these situations where you might be talking to someone and not be sure about their ...