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Listen to my voice poem

December 29, 2024 / 0 Comments

I think sometimes it’s a threatening voice.

Billowing of sorts.

Sometimes there is a tone of discomfort.

A tone of unhappiness.

A tone of stress.

A tone.

And you hear it.

I do something at that time.

Which in time could hurt.

Although you may feel it.

What does it take for a sense of peace to work.

I would have sung a tune in front of you.

If you were musical.

Enough for you to receive.

The truth being you hate it when I sing.

Which is hard for people to believe.

You pile with people who feel the same.

Not asking for more and more.

Hoping that when you silence my voice.

It will even up the score.

I gave into these problems.

And issues you have.

Knowing that if you loved my voice.

Just like Young Jeezy

You would’ve wanted to go half.

Half on whatever it took,

To make me into a whole

Lying to yourself

So Santa brings you coal.

In terms of regret

Of which you should not feel

There were secrets between us

That’s only being real

El'Aundra

Poetic

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Full Disclosure: I have been a poet since a child. You would have or should have known that about me before dating or entering a relationship. I have never been proposed to or married. I believe that you don't own anyone. So, no matter what I was doing; I was fantasizing about love. Should you take that offensively, that's not how poetry would be written to 'offend you.' It was written to heal me. So, I don't want you to feel that way. Don't get into wondering if you're the subject of the poem, just read without glasses of judgement. Then it is nothing for you to think you can speculate on who it pertains to. Or assume Daily Affirmation: My heart is always open to give and receive love. ‘You’ as in a multiplication of people I have encountered and had affiliations with throughout the year. Miguel Ruiz has a principle DON’T TAKE THINGS PERSONAL ❤️ I have many times over been through what you have either put me through, have been through yourself or never experienced. Some topics might be sensitive and resonate. I do not lie about dates or anything I write. It's all in truth. I do not steal writings from someone else. I have written since I had nothing else to do at 2 years old after falling out of a 3rd story window. I would have thought that there would have been more of a scenery on this road to this point. Leveled by trenches of heartbreak, taken under by waves of grief. Experiencing every type of anguish possibly known to man. And yet my face only brought some men pleasure while they were in the arms of another woman. My aura was only enough for them to want to hurt me because they hated my voice. Carrying torches of stained experiences. Wallowing in the depth of my shame because of how your hatred for not only me, but yourself; made me see the light. But little did they know, that's literal, metaphorical and figuratively speaking. And I know you hate me, that's why I never stopped writing about how you made me feel. Thats important in the healing process. I always had fashion, singing, sewing, art, and many other creative things in my life that gave me happiness before the heartbreak. So it's imperative that I get this out... inspire others through Makeup, Fashion, etc just as I did in 2009. Living in Charlotte North Carolina opening up products being sent to the house for me to review.❤️

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